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Changing Mindset for Coping With The Chaos

How To Manage Uncertainty in Uncertain Times

The world is in the grip of uncertainty and most of us are still in a place of uncertainty ourselves.

We are living in extremely uncertain times – and that uncertainty can be difficult to cope with.

You may feel worried right now.

You may struggle to keep anxious thoughts in check.

And you may feel unsure about the future.

But help is at hand – you CAN learn to live with uncertainty.

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“When Nothing Is Certain, Anything Is Possible” — Tiny Buddha

Facing Uncertainty is Scarier than Facing Physical Pain

A new study shows that the uncertainty of something bad happening can be more stressful than the knowledge of something bad happening.

In 2016, a group of London researchers explored how people react to being told they will either “definitely” or “probably” receive a painful electric shock.

They discovered an intriguing paradox.

Volunteers who knew they would definitely receive a painful electric shock felt calmer and were measurably less agitated than those who were told they only had a 50 percent chance of receiving the electric shock. 

Researchers recruited 45 volunteers to play a computer game in which they turned over digital rocks that might have snakes hiding underneath.

Throughout the game, they had to guess whether each rock concealed a snake. When a snake appeared, they received a mild but painful electric shock on the hand.

Over the course of the game they got better about predicting under which

rocks they’d find snakes, but the game was designed to keep changing the

odds of success to maintain ongoing uncertainty.

And when we’re facing outcomes imbued with uncertainty, it’s the fact that

something bad might happen that “gets” us.

The volunteers’ level of uncertainty correlated to their level of stress. So, if

someone felt “certain” he or she would find a snake, stress levels were

significantly lower than if they felt that maybe they would find a snake.

In both cases, they’d get a shock, but their stress was loaded with added


Effects of uncertainty when paying video games

Archy de Berker from the UCL Institute of Neurology said: “Our experiment

allows us to draw conclusions about the effect of uncertainty on stress. It

turns out that it’s much worse not knowing you are going to get a shock than

knowing you definitely will or won’t.”

Uncertainty Ignites our Primitive Survival Instinct

If we can’t neutralise a perceived threat, we engage in the unhelpful process

called “worry”.

We grapple with whatever the problem is to find solutions to the threat, but

there are none.

Does this make us feel better? No, of course it doesn’t – it makes us feel worse.

In our need for certainty, we are wired to “catastrophise” – we view or talk of a

situation as worse than it actually is. This leads to worry, which in turn leads

to anxiety.

The modern brain struggles to distinguish between real threat and perceived


The result is that the primitive brain takes over and triggers the primitive

survival instinct – fight-or-flight.

It asks questions:

 What is going to happen…?

What is around the corner for me…?

 Should I be doing more…?

Should I be doing less…? 

 What if my business is threatened…?

What if my livelihood is threatened…?

 What if my life is threatened…?

The lack of answers can lead to:




person facing uncertain times and feeling the chaos

“The oldest and strongest emotion of mankind is fear, and the oldest and strongest kind of fear is fear of the unknown.” (H.P. Lovecraft)

What Can You Do To Mitigate Uncertainty?

Having the correct mindset is the only way to tolerate and negotiate uncertainty — we can change our current self-talk from a state of peril to a place of possibility.

There are a number of things we can do to lessen the effects of uncertainty:

• Awareness is your superpower – be aware of your feelings and emotions

• Notice the “worry story” you are telling yourself – try to distance yourself from it

• Focus on breathing – long slow breaths

• Recognise the need to rise above fight-or-flight

• Accept uncertainty – allow yourself to stop the struggle 

Stand up to Anxiety with Some Mood-Boosters

• Exercise and movement

• Meditation, self hypnosis

• Achievement-oriented activity

• Something pleasant or fun

Just 15 minutes a day, focussing on yourself, will help you regain a sense of balance.

The more you practice all these strategies, the better you will become!

person finding their way out of the uncertainty due to mindset

“Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes in the middle nowhere you find yourself.” Anonymous

Need Support To Cope With The Chaos?

If you’re feeling full of uncertainty, then hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you to understand what you’re feeling and then reprogram your mindset so that you can make progress and take control of your life in the middle of uncertainty. To find out more, book your first free consultation with me today by emailing

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